Today I posted the following on the facebook page for
"The Killing."
I only made it through 15 minutes of the new season last
night. I think I'm over stories about the rape and murder of young women. While
the detective is hunting down the killer and we're cheering him or her on, more
murders of young women and countless more brutal rapes are being committed.
Rarely does someone in these stories say, maybe this one guy isn't the real
problem. Maybe our culture is sick. Maybe our culture produces sick men.
Enough.
Note my pronoun agreement problem in the third sentence.
"Him or her" refers to the detective not the killer. Which led to
this response:
What the hell are you talking about? Who is cheering the
killer? People watch this show because of the twist and turns and the
outstanding characters that Enos and Kinnamen portray.
A familiar argument surfaced:
Our culture also produces sick women, but this is just a
fictional crime drama not a documentary on all our societal ills.
To which I replied,
Right. It's only fiction. But the stories we tell each other
and gravitate toward say everything about us.
Another fan of the series told me I should really give the
show another chance, to which I said:
I watched the first season. I think I've got the picture.
Linden is a fascinating character. Much good stuff. But the 14-year-old with
her head nearly cut off? This I do not need.
Actually I watched the second season as well.
Getting into arguments on Facebook is not usually a
productive enterprise. BUT THEN . . .
my daughter, Mary, who in her spare time answers phones (after many hours of
training) for a women's crisis line in Portland, chimed in:
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| Mary |
I love you, Mom.
You're making an argument no one really wants to hear.
The bottom line is that popular media perpetuates myths of
violence against women, while neglecting to explore the realities. The myths
feel better, are more entertaining, and place less blame on the common
man/common culture. The realities feel worse: full-bodied shame, guilt, and
horror. The truth is also a call to action. The truth requires something from
us.
Unfortunately, we're all too busy watching television to
think about how to help the neediest people.
Reasons to have children: They educate you. They are more
articulate than you are. They tell you they love you on facebook.
P.S. Thanks for the moral support from friends when I posted
the same initial message on my homepage of facebook.
Jo Ann--I can't stand most of the current crime shows. I wonder if they couldn't kill a prostitute, shoot a scene in a strip club or have a plot revolve around a mistress for a couple of seasons what kinds of interesting new stories we might get.
ReplyDeleteI agree. I'm getting a little tired of pole dancing.
ReplyDeleteWe have been trying to watch an Irish series, but not even for Gillian Anderson... My husband turned to me last night after we made it through the third installment: "I really don't enjoy this."
ReplyDeleteWe watched the first two seasons of The Killing and I think we're done now.